(1.) C.M.A. No. 3839 of 2005 arises out of Judgment dated 18.10.2005 in I.D.O.P. No. 235 of 2003, whereby, by a common judgment, the Family Court, Coimbatore has passed decree of divorce dissolving the marriage of Appellant/wife and Respondent/husband. C.M.A. No. 3840 of 2005 arises out of the common judgment in I.D.O.P. No. 205 of 2004 whereby Family Court dismissed the Petition for restitution of conjugal rights filed by the Appellant/wife.
(2.) The Respondent is an Anaesthetist and is a medical practitioner. He joined in Senthil Nursing Home, Coimbatore as Junior Doctor, where the Appellant was working as Nurse and both of them had fallen in love. The Appellant was a Roman Catholic Christian and Respondent was a Hindu, who got converted to Christianity. Their marriage was solemnised on 10.6.1983 at Saint Michael's Church, Big Bazaar Street, Coimbatore and both of them were living together. Out of lawful wedlock, a male child was born to them on 1.12.1984. After marriage, the Respondent pursued his higher studies at Stanley Medical College during the years 1984-1989. During that period, the Appellant and her son were taken care by her parents. After completing his Post Graduation, the Respondent joined the Government Hospital, Pandhalur. Later, the Respondent joined E.S.I. Hospital, Coimbatore, Papanaickenpalayam and then he was transferred to Coimbatore Government Medical College and Hospital. The spouses were living together in Coimbatore and they also constructed a house at Sowripalayam, Coimbatore in 1998.
(3.) The case of Respondent is that his married life was happy only for a short span of time and that the Appellant is a person of suspicious character and that she would not tolerate his coming late night from the Hospital. According to the Respondent, being an Anaesthetist, he has to attend emergency cases in the Hospital in late hours and the Appellant would question him about the same and use abusive language alleging that he is having illicit intimacy with some other woman and that he was humiliated and insulted by the Appellant in public places. The Respondent further averred that the Appellant would visit the work place and tease him spoiling his reputation in public, which has caused him mental agony. In the Petition for divorce, the Respondent further alleged that the Appellant had also lodged a false complaint before All Women Police Station alleging that he is leading an adulterous life and that no action was initiated by the police and enraged by the same the Appellant sought assistance from an Organisation called Helpline, which threatened the life of Respondent which caused reasonable apprehension in the mind of the Respondent that his life is under threat and that it has become impossible for him to cohabit with the Appellant and on those averments the Respondent has sought for dissolution of marriage.